Quick Question For You
As you know, my friend Dan Rose is about to release a new program that will teach you how to drive women wild in the bedroom.
I can’t reveal what’s included in this program yet, but I can promise you that you’ll be blown away by it! And here’s some more good news. I want to add some incredible bonuses to the program in order to make it more valuable for you, and I need your help to do it.
Please take a minute and answer this question for me…
What is the single most important question you have about sex and/or pleasing women in bed.
Please be as detailed and specific as possible. Dan and I will be reading every one of these questions all day today, and we’re going to put together something really special for you based on what you post. And be sure to check back during the day to see what other men have posted as well. I think this is going to be fun!
Go ahead and post your question now. Dan and I look forward to reading it and answering it for you.
Okay I’ll bite. I get women telling me that they see me as just a friend. I’m tired of women seeing me as someone they want to hang out with but not have sex with. How can I turn this around and have them see me as a potential sex partner? – Frank G.
Posted by Frank G. on December 30th, 2009
I always cum before my girlfriend. She says it’s no big deal, but I feel like a dumb ass for not having self control to last longer. How can I last longer and have more control of when I cum?
Posted by Lev on December 30th, 2009
For most women, I don’t enjoy “eating them out”. Is there a way to get to like it? There have been one or two that I liked it some of the time. Most women, I never like it. Any advice?
Posted by Johan on December 30th, 2009
For Johan,
A hot bath / shower (together) should help you out – but my favourite approach is take half a mouthful of champagne before you start. Nothing better than a champagne pussy cocktail! and most girls love it.
Stan
Posted by Stan on December 30th, 2009
One more question. What if you want to do something a little more risque like anal sex or tying her to a bed? How do you get her interested in something like that?
Posted by Lev on December 30th, 2009
Finding g-spot and best way to manipulate it. Have you seen the on-line videos “how to make a woman squirt”. I would love to do this with my girl but not sure about the technique. Don’t want to introduce something new and wind up creating something disapointing. Your thought?
Posted by J on December 30th, 2009
I have many great dates but very little making out or sex. I have a feeling that I could be having more sex if I took more initiative. How do I know when to make a move? How do I turn dates into having more sex?
Posted by Jeremy on December 30th, 2009
What is the best way to massage a womans prostate gland (G spot) to give her a full body orgasm?
Posted by Paul Botelho on December 30th, 2009
What is the best way to make her beg for it? I feel like I always escalate too quickly in the bedroom. I get bored of kissing and rubbing after a few minutes, but I know I probably move to quickly into the next steps before she is ready… so what are some ways besides like a massage to get her into the mood quicker or what are some other things I could be doing besides sitting there kissing and rubbing?
Posted by L on December 30th, 2009
How do i get my wife to want to have a threesome? She cringes at the thought of it…
Posted by luke on December 30th, 2009
How do you last longer in bed? I can with some condoms, but I want to be able to do it without any desensitizing condoms. Which positions are best for lasting longer but mostly how can I control it better?
Posted by jobe on December 30th, 2009
my girlfriend hasnt given me oral and its been a year,she says in time she will,any advice?
Posted by kirby on December 30th, 2009
OK, you want my hardest question? This is one I’ve dealt with personally for a long time, and it will be interesting to compare notes with a couple of guys who are experts at pleasing women in bed. How do you get your woman to “crave sex” when she has a history of PTSD from growing up in the middle of a war (actual combat, bombs, etc) on her home front, then was raped by one of the occupiers and married the guy because she had been taught by her church that that was the only way it was OK to have sex, then lived with him in an abusive relationship for years until he hung himself?
Posted by Paul Wiers on December 30th, 2009
how can i get my women to give me more oral sex?
Posted by paul on December 30th, 2009
when i am really tirned on & i am pumping her little cunny,i have a tendency
to cum after 4 minutes,what can i do to prolong my orgasm?
Posted by moe on December 30th, 2009
How to last long in bed????
Posted by David on December 30th, 2009
I’ve noticed a commom problem here. The key is patience on the man’s part. We’re all familiar with being teased by women. Turn it around in a way that lets your woman know her pleasure is the most important thing to you, but don’t give in to her begging right away. You have to lead the process and don’t be afraid to talk to her. Come close to giving her what she wants but don’t actually give it until she is so worked up she is nearly forcing you to. An example is to kiss or gently caress her inner thighs and pubic area without touching her clitoris or gently masaging her breast and circling her nipples without touching the nipple for more than a second. It drives them wild and every woman I’ve done this to has litterally grabbed my hand or head and pushed it into place to give her more.
As far as cumming to soon, concentrate on her pleasure and not your own. Get your mind off what you’re feeling physically and slow down. This helps you last longer. Also try to give her several orgasms and bring her to the edge of another before you enter her. Sometimes, just the penetration is enough to make her cum.
Not liking oral sex is a mental state. The showering or bathing together is a great idea and is a lot of fun. Another thing to try is finding a scented product you like (make sure it’s non-toxic and won’t cause her discomfort if it gets on sensitive areas) and apply it while “playing” in the area. When your woman doesn’t go down on you, don’t get in such a hurry. Get her realy worked up and gently work her down there. Use word like, “Oh baby, I love the feel of your lips on my chest. Oh baby, you drive me crazy with your mouth on my stomach., etc.” Don’t rush her and make sure you’re pleasuring her while doing this.
The main thing in getting what you want in the bedroom (or anywhere else) is patience and practice. You are training her to respond to you. You always have to make her feel she is sexy to you before, during, and after. Talk dirty to her (use words that aren’t offensive to her, but use wording that makes her see it in her mind) and don’t be afraid make her fantisize while you’re together. Don’t try to push her into anything she isn’t ready for. Work her up to it gradually with her fantisies and, with most women, she will eventually get to the point where she becomes more adventurous. Remember, she has to feel you are doing for her pleasure and not just your own.
Posted by Dave on December 30th, 2009
My wife and I used to have anal pleasures. then she refused even though she orgasmed each and every time we had anal. We saw a movie once and she stated she would let that guy do her anally. I did not notice any difference in his technigue and mine. How can I get her to give me another chance to gently and slowly introduce anal into our scheme of sex again?
Posted by Jeff on December 30th, 2009
I know a gal who I dearly love, and she knows this but she sees me as a good friend. She has been through two bad marriages and says she is not interested in a relationship with anyone. How can I change this and have her see me as a person that she would want to have a relationship with. I want to be her lover, friend and soul mate.
As for sex I have no problem, I will eat a woman’s pussy anytime, I love it, and am quite good at making a woman come with my mouth. I would like to lean how to make a woman have a squirting orgasm, and other things I can do to give a woman more than one or two orgasms in a session of love making
Posted by Michael Eiden on December 30th, 2009
What is the best way to finger/eat a girl out?
Posted by GC on December 30th, 2009
My wife and I make up foreplay games as one way to creatively mix up various types of sensual activities (positions, toys, techniques, etc.). I am very interested in how other couples maintain sexual variety in their marriage.
What are the best techniques for keeping monogamous sex creatively exciting and novel so that it is emotionally, intellectually and physically fulfilling? How can couples reduce or eliminate their inhibitions to become more sexually adventurous for a lifetime of great sex?
Posted by Michael on December 30th, 2009
How do you make a woman orgasm during intercourse, as opposed to oral sex and fingering?
Posted by Dan on December 30th, 2009
Giving oral sex has never been my favorite thing (but I love getting it). I’m 62. I’m seeing a 23yo who loves oral sex, and she’s worth the effort to get better at it.
I’ve realized that the main things I don’t like about it are how long it takes and the neck and back aches I get from giving oral sex for a prolonged time.
Any suggestions on a) making her cum faster, and/or b) a position that’s not so hard on the neck and back? I’m uncomfortable (more mentally than physically) with her on top.
Thanks.
Posted by Dave on December 30th, 2009
The real key getting a woman horned up enough to want to have sex with me .
Posted by SKIP GOLDBERG on December 30th, 2009
What is the easiest way to make a woman cum without her clit being involved?
What compels a woman to go down on her man? How does one cultivate that in their woman?
Thanks
Posted by Garrett on December 30th, 2009
I have been seeing my girlfriend for around 3 months and for the last month we haven’t had sex. The last time I did was amazing, but for some reason she hasn’t been in the mood. She keeps blaming her period, being busy or the fact shes hurt her foot. Is this a cover up and how can I get her to enjoy sex again?
Posted by Sulty on December 30th, 2009
I am doing usually good in the first few dates but then I lack something that they vanish after a while. I usually don’t use rated-R verbal maybe that is what’s needed to take it to the next level but I am not sure that is the case.
Posted by Bary on December 30th, 2009
A’m tired of my woman telling me that she see me as a friend but not a lover, how can i turn this around and have me as a potential sex partner?
Posted by Peter on December 30th, 2009
How can i take over with my colleaque whom we no each other that we share the girl, so that i win her heart from him?
Posted by Peter on December 30th, 2009
I am able to make friends with women, young and old very easily, but cant get them to the next stage of either flirting or getting them undressed.
Posted by John on December 30th, 2009
I have been with my gf for 1 year and 5 months, and i have been having sex with her once a week. “HOWEVER” i can never get her to reach her orgasm, and i always give up. How can i make her reach it? i’ve been trying with her for a long long time already and very frequent, but i don’t seem to get her to reach orgasm. When i want to use my finger to put it in my girlfriend’s vagina she said it hurts even though i trim my nails to make it very short and very blunt. I am out of ways to make her reach orgasm already. Please give me some advice.
Posted by navy on December 30th, 2009
How do i make it easy to go to bed with just female friends…..not realy my girlfriend but just friends whom i do associate with.
Posted by Christopher on December 30th, 2009
Besides cuddling and light kisses, after hours of great sex, what can you do with your partner so she’ll want you even more the next time?
Posted by Chris on December 30th, 2009
A lot of the “getting your woman to want/do stuff” issues can be solved by making her fantasize about it beforehand. Dave’s post contains many good points.
Posted by Ake on December 30th, 2009