VIDEO LESSON: The “Magic” Question That Instantly Makes You Better In Bed
Did you know that there’s a “magic” question that, if you simply asked it on a regular basis, would transform you into a better lover automatically? Go ahead and watch the video to see what I’m talking about, and be sure to leave your comment. I’d like to hear your thoughts about this.
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I can absolutely see how this would make me better in bed. I tend to focus on “how can I get more” instead of “how can I inspire her to fantasize about giving me more”. This is a great lesson. Who is this guy Dan? Is that the speaker on the video?
Posted by Jimmy D. on December 21st, 2009
very good reframe. so where we get the how to do part or the rest of the video. it would make sense to for her to want it just as much as we and fantasize about it.
Posted by nelson vivas on December 21st, 2009
Thanks Jimmy and Nelson. I’ve got more video clips coming out this week from Dan. He came and spoke to my social skills group here in Boston and we filmed the whole thing. I revealed some pretty incredible information in the seminar, including a fool-proof formula for getting your woman interested in a threesome. More to come.
Posted by Jason Lane on December 21st, 2009
I have used this technique myself for as long as I can remember, cheeky notes strategically placed telling her what I would love to do to her. When I know she has an important meeting, I will send her a seductive text telling her what I will be doing to her when she gets home, when I cant be with her, I make sure to have some phone sex with her, and my favourite technique is to “re-run” our steamiest sessions via text, this never fails to get her hot for me, and also, we have a “fantasy list” of all the sexual exploits we want to have with eachother, and we take them from fantasy, and turn them into reality.
Great sex (imho) begins in the head, get a woman thinking about having sex with you, and the barriers come down extremely quickly, and if you can back up the fantasies that you place in her head, with the actual events, then you have it made.
My final tip is “dynanite” it can be viewed by some as a little bit “manipulative” but personally, I dont think it is, especially with a long term partner. As an NLP Master Practitioner, I am very familiar with emotional anchors, ( basically anchoring a certain emotion, or feeling, to a specific trigger) when your partner is at the absolute pinnacle of exstasy, just as she is begins to orgasm, look her in the eye, (if that is possible at that time, dont worry if its not, the words will have more than enough effect) and tell her you love her, or better still, tell her how amazing she is, do this several times (it doesnt have to be in the same night) and in future whenever you tell her how amazing she is, or that you love her, you will have subconciously anchored the feeling of orgasm to your “key phrase” she will feel a passion for you, a sense of warmth, of attraction, of exstasy whenever you say your key phrase, women are sensory creatures, the more senses you can hit at once the more dramatic the effect.
If you really want to blow her away, look her in the eye as she is orgasming, say your “key phrase” and touch her in a very specific place, maybe stroke her left cheek as you say to her “your amazing” then whenever you look her in the eye, and stroke her face, and say “your amazing” she will feel the same “sensations” she felt at the height of her orgasm.
This technique works, try it out for yourself;)
Posted by Seany on December 21st, 2009
This is great.
I hunger to see the following up videos…..
Posted by Gerrit on December 21st, 2009
Huh, this cat’s like a girl. Just teasing.
He didn’t even say what the question was.
Way to not put out, “sex master”!
Posted by Matt on December 21st, 2009
That Post On Anchoring Is Really Good, Basic NLP, But A Great Reminder, Thanks!
Posted by Jon on December 21st, 2009
I Appreciated The Video By The Asian Dude. Would Like To See More, Thanks!
Posted by Jon on December 21st, 2009
Not always effective. I’ve actually tried this with my wife before, and she has told me that it actually turns her off and makes her not want sex…
Posted by CT on December 21st, 2009
Gerrit, of course he did. The question is “how can I get her fantasizing about having sex with me” instead of “how can I get her to have more sex”. That simple change makes a big difference.
Posted by Jason Lane on December 21st, 2009
I’m a woman and I read all these goodies for several reasons. Partly to help my son, a young man starting out in Life. Partly to keep up with what techniques men *think* work out there. Partly because I have male friends who ask my advice and I learned that telling them to be a Good Guy is bad advice! And partly because I am a sensual and sexual woman and I want to understand men better.
That said, this is a teaser. Yes, it’s absolutely a better mindset to focus on how to get her fantasizing about you than it is to focus on getting her to say Yes to sex more often. Trust me: We KNOW you want more sex, you have not failed to get that message across. The question is What do you DO to get me fantasizing about having sex with you? Seany posted a great, specific answer. That is the kind of specific answer I was hoping to see in that video clip.
Here’s another 2¢ worth: a lover of mine, we would email back-and-forth writing scenarios, not just what-I-want-to-do-with-you, not even fantasex, but stories of us as different characters in different scenes. Us meeting as teenagers, for instance. Writing literary porn together. you know what that did? Kept me fantasizing about what *I* could write that would turn him on.
And that’s out of the mouths of babes.
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