3 Magic Words That Get You Women
Thursday, January 28th, 2010Did you know that there are three words that can bring lots of attractive, single women into your life? It’s true, and I’m going to share them with you right now.
By the time you finish reading this, you’re going to know how to bring more women into your life immediately. Let’s get started.
Those three magic words are:
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OUTFLOW PRECEDES INFLOW
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Let me illustrate.
- Are you sitting around waiting for women to show up in your life?
- Are you going out to social gatherings and hoping that women will come talk to you?
- Do you have personal ads up on dating sites, but nobody is contacting you?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you need to take this to heart. Outflow always precedes inflow. In other words, if you want more inflow (women that want to date you), then you need to put more energy into outflow (taking steps to bring them into your life).
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HERE’S HOW TO DO IT
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To begin with, stop looking at your schedule in terms of one day at a time, and start looking at it in one-week chunks. In fact, to make this more real, go ahead and open your calendar right now.
Go ahead, I’ll wait… seriously, open your calendar.
Now look at the next seven days. What do you have scheduled that will bring more women into your life? If the answer is “nothing”, then it’s time to focus on creating more outflow. Here’s what your next seven days should look like:
DAY 1: Send out a mass text message, email, or Facebook message to all your friends and invite them to a social gathering later in the week. Encourage them to invite their friends too so you can all meet each other. Be the guy that creates the party, and they will show up. You can either have a dinner party, or simply pile into a bar together. Your choice.
DAY 2: Place a personal ad on two free personals sites like Okcupid.com and PlentyOfFish.com. Also, reply to at least five women’s ads on each site every day this week. It should take you 10-20 minutes per day… tops.
DAY 3: Go to a local shopping mall and visit at least two stores you have never shopped at before. Ask the hottest female sales person to choose a few outfits for you based on what SHE thinks you’d look good in. Don’t give her any input at all. Let her exercise her creativity and figure out how to make you look hotter. This will help you meet more women every time you go out.
DAY 4: Look at some of those free papers you see laying around coffee shops and find one social event you’ve never been to before and schedule it in your calendar. Make sure it’s something different than you’d usually do. Then text your friends and invite them to come with you.
DAY 5: Check out your local adult education centers and choose two classes that you’re going to take in the next 30 days. Make sure it’s something that would have women in it. Register for those classes on the spot and put them in your calendar.
DAY 6: Explore Meetup.com and join three interesting groups that have 100 or more members. Make sure they meet regularly or it’ll be pointless to join. There are TONS of single women on Meetup.com.
DAY 7: Take the day off and evaluate how your week went. Talk to your friends and debrief. And then set up your calendar for the next seven days and repeat the process. Make sure you keep replying to a few personal ads every day.
BONUS TIP: Be sure to call or email the women you met, and set up dates with them. Do NOT let this sit for too long or they will move on and find someone else. I’ve seen a lot of guys lose women this way
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THE KEY TO MAKING THIS WORK IS…
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Make sure you take action now. Don’t put this email aside and come back to it later. Take an action RIGHT NOW that will get you started. Log into Facebook, open up your phone or email client, and start contacting people to invite them out.
Do it… I’m serious. If you don’t take immediate action, you’ll forget and become really busy doing bullshit activities that don’t get you women.
The more energy you put into outflow, the more inflow (women) you’ll have. Give it a shot, and I think you’ll be surprised at how many dates you get in a very short period of time.
Jason Lane
P.S. – I’m always very interested in what action takers have to say, so go ahead and post a comment below and tell me what actions you took. I really want to hear from you and see how this goes.
